Written by Captain Mary on Wednesday, July 02, 2008

I heard a term today that I haven't ever heard before "Cougar Women". My friend Carolyn, told me I was a Cougar, she said it was because I have courage, aggression, self confidence, power and have dated younger men. I took this as a compliment, then I did some research on the Internet and found lots of opinions on the subject. It seems that the jealous ones call us predators, men don't seem to mind Cougar Women at all. They are self-confident and don't play the stupid games of the younger girls who haven't quite learned what they really want out of a relationship. No fault of theirs they have not experienced the dramas that make them the mature women. Unfortunately this takes years and lets face it ladies sometimes we never get it.
As for me how would I define this term "Cougar Women", women of character, courage, self-confidence, and intelligence. As per my definition I will proudly call myself a Cougar! Women ages 35+ you are targeted to be called this term, think of it as a compliment told to you out of sheer jealousy. Lets not think of ourselves as predators unless you want to, think of it as giving the younger generation a little competition. Check out this article I found msnbc says and be proud to be called a "Cougar Woman"

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  1. 5 comments: Responses to “ COUGAR WOMEN ”

  2. By MeatWad on July 3, 2008 at 12:57 AM

    I am a 32 year old male and have friends that gawk at 18 year olds and I have no idea why. They are children and that is all I see. I will take a cougar any day...if I wasn't married that is.

  3. By The Hypocritical One on July 3, 2008 at 11:16 AM

    I think men are weird. Until age 35, cougars are tops...and then suddenly their tastes turn to 18 year olds.

    Either way, they generally aren't getting what they want.

  4. By Anonymous on July 3, 2008 at 12:00 PM

    One of my best friends when I was young loved older women. There was one bank teller who was a very statuesque and beautiful woman who he successfully seduced.

    And in my days of playing it straight my MIL was a very good looking woman for 40. My friend thought so too and since she was single he managed to seduce her too.

    Even at a young age he knew.

    It works on the gay side too. I'm the advanced age of 43 yet still attract attention from the young ones. The thing is, I could never tolerate the bullshit of someone in their 20's.

  5. By FIRST MATE on July 3, 2008 at 6:53 PM

    I really don't see the big deal in it either. Men, for ages, have been known to date younger women. They have been referred to as Sugar Daddy's, so why not Cougar women. They are many beautiful older women out there in this world. Besides, who said that you have to date someone your own age? I don't think anyone has...and thats how it should remain. If these pups are complaining, they need to look at themselves are realize what they have vs. what a cougar woman has and strive to be more like that, rather than pointing a finger and saying that they are predators. If anything, a Cougar has a more interesting, satisfying life and the pups are just jealous!

  6. By Queenie on July 5, 2008 at 9:49 AM

    I totally agree with Mon. The youngins could learn a lot from the Cougars if they wouldn't be so jealous and bitchy.

    As for the looking thing, I don't care what age, what sex, eye candy is eye candy. I appreciate something hot and yummy when I see it. :)